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Kevin Alexander's avatar

Growing up, we took exactly 2 vacations that involved crossing state lines. The rest were annual trips to the coast; "safe" trips to familiar places to spend time with known people (we too "hung out" with family w/o any kind of agenda). Those are nice, but leave you reeling with wanderlust.

Trips like the one you're about to take are far more valuable; both for see what's out there, and seeing what's inside you. I hope you have the drive of a lifetime! And while I'm sure you're on a deadline to get to Cali, try and do part of your travel on state highways/back roads- good, bad, or ugly that's where the "real America" lies.

P.S. +1 for Indiana Dunes! Close enough that you can see the Chicago skyline. Far enough away that it feels like you're looking at another planet.

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Kate Raphael's avatar

Totally hear all of that. I'm planning the drive right now and definitely going to structure it in a way that we can see more than just I-80. Thanks for the tip!

(Indiana Dunes are the best. Lake Michigan will always be one of my favorite bodies of water.)

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Mary Peckham's avatar

Grateful if I modeled something redemptive. I too wish we had created adventure while we were together. Eagerly following your vacay therapy and always glad to hear of safe returns. ♥️ Mom

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Joe Wrote's avatar

Great read! Also, maple cremee's slap

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Mark Dykeman's avatar

The essay from The Cut is educational, thank you.

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Kate Raphael's avatar

I'm glad you liked it. I thought it was great.

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